Sunday, July 24, 2011

Break ups - Is it REALLY hard to move on?

New week, new begining! I had neglected this space for a while now. Emotion packed weekend folks! Human beings are the most complicated creatures on earth! I just finished watching Simi Garewal's latest show on India's most desirable.The episode I watched featured John Abraham. I picked this video, just to see how well he was coping with the recent breakup with Bipasha. Looks like it was a mutual decision. Now that's THE best way to break up, if break up is indeed the solution. I hope that they can remain friends.
If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it.
If you can’t save the relationship, at least save your pride.

I think, in today's world,  there is no such thing as best friends, soul mates, lovers, etc. Effortless relationships are so rare that, when we see one it makes it envious. Whether it be happily-ever-after marriages, or friendships which last forever, or parent/child bonds we'd all like to believe that our relationships are unconditional, and strong enough to withstand whatever may come. But alas! it is far from the truth. Selfishness has taken over. Everything is temporary. Isn't it strange then, that all of us are looking for something permanent in a temporary life. I was one among these foolish people. But recently, after giving it some thought, I feel, time has come to accept the fact that I am my own best friend. There is no one on this earth that can take that away form me. Phrases like opposites attract, birds of the same feather flock together, even though has some truth, is not the whole truth. If relationships last through testing times, then they are indeed meant to be. All the others are failed relationships. Unfortunately, the failed ones are majority. All this means, if we invest time in ourselves, maybe it will pay off. I think the first step, is to start thinking positive. If the friendship was not meant to be, it is never going to last,  however much we try. So, let it go. With time the hurt WILL go away. A good friend just told me that today. It was her experience. Luckily, the world is a bigger place. There is lot to do and look forward to. :)


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